We have heard the term ‘wholesome recreational
activities’ many times in our lives as
Mormons. But what does it mean? Going outside and playing in the sun? Or
watching TV as a family. Well.. It can be both. Wholesome recreational
activities are meant to strengthen the family unit.
Now days we have so much technology that we
disconnect ourselves from each other. Wholesome family recreation allows us to
be with each other and come closer as a family unit. The book for my family
class said concerning wholesome recreational activities,
“ Meaningful recreation doesn’t just happen; it
must be prepared for, cultivated, and privately defended.”
We need to avoid meaningless leisure. Many of us
are very busy but we need to plan for the activities that we want to do as a
family. They don’t have to be huge plans, but activities that will reunite the
family. We live in a time that provides
many activities that we can do as a family, but we need to find activities that
will help us grow stronger, build relationships, build faith and happiness.
Forgiving is such a strong principles. It is easy to understand,
but hard to act upon. Many of us have been hurt in many different ways.
Sometimes it is the hardest when someone that we love has hurt us. There are
many behaviors out there that are very difficult to forget about and eventually forgive.
I was able to learn how important it is to remember all the things
that an individual that has hurt us has
done right and not just focus on the one thing that they did wrong. As we look
at it this way, it will be a little more easier for us to forgive that
individual.
In my family book it talked
about what Christ taught about forgiveness:
"And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that
your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if ye
do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your
trespasses."
I loved that. Even though we may be hurting it is important to forgive so our
healing process can be more peaceful and when we do something wrong our
Heavenly Father will forgive us because we have forgiven others.
No one on this Earth is perfect. I think that we should be willing to forgive
all. It will be hard at times, but we need to leave that judgment to Heavenly
Father. In the Doctrine and Covenants Heavenly Father says, “ I will forgive
whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men”
I hope you enjoyed it! Have a great weekend.
